Charge your glasses for perfect toast
Speeches are an important part of any wedding reception and give guests an insight into the lives of the wedding couple. The following guidelines will help the wedding party ensure important people are not forgotten and friends and family are recognised for their contributions.
Father of the bride
Typically the father of the bride (and/or groom) foots most of the wedding bill, so it is only proper that he makes the first speech.
The father of the bride or groom usually addresses the guests formally, welcoming them, thanking people and acknowledging any contributions they have made.
The father of the bride or groom may talk more casually about his feelings and relationship with his son or daughter and also welcome the bride or groom and in-laws into his family.
The groom
The groom’s speech is about the bride, their future together and he usually thanks more people than any of the other speakers.
He should thank the bride’s father for his kindness, his daughter and the wedding reception (if appropriate).
Guests should also be thanked for attending, for their good wishes and for their wedding gifts. He may also talk about how he met his bride, why he loves her and their future together.
He should also thank individuals who helped organise the event.
When thanking bridesmaids, the groom can comment on their charm and beauty (but not too much), and he should not forget the groomsmen and best man.
Best man
The best man’s speech is the last of the traditional wedding speeches.
Traditionally the official spokesman for the bridal party, the best man will congratulate the bride and groom on behalf of the bridesmaids and groomsmen.
He can talk about the groom’s life, experiences and qualities and give some details about the bride and groom, such as how they met. Tasteful jokes and anecdotes about the groom are usually welcome.
The best man proposes a toast to the newlyweds. As a finale, he might read telegrams and cards from people unable to attend.
Bride
A speech from the bride is becoming more common these days.
She thanks guests for coming, giving special thanks to those who have travelled a long way to attend and mentioning anyone of importance unable to attend.
Special mention can be made of any guest who made a unique contribution to the wedding.
The bride could tell the story of how she met the groom, funny memories of how the relationship developed and an amusing story about the run-up to the wedding.
She should thank both sets of parents for their roles in the wedding and for their love, support and encouragement, and thank guests for their generosity and gifts
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